fix(1001): stop create_* from half-writing onto tombstoned IDs

Root cause: db::next_item_number scanned the visible CRDT index and the
content store but not the tombstone set, so it would hand out a numeric
ID whose CRDT entry had been tombstoned. crdt_state::write_item then
silently no-op'd the insert (tombstone-match guard) while the content
store and SQLite shadow happily accepted the row, producing a split-
brain half-write that was invisible to every CRDT-driven read path and
couldn't be cleaned up by delete_story / purge_story.

This change closes the loop:

- crdt_state::read::{is_tombstoned, tombstoned_ids} expose the
  tombstone set so callers outside crdt_state can consult it.

- db::next_item_number now scans tombstoned_ids() too. The allocator
  skips past tombstoned numeric IDs instead of treating their slots as
  free.

- write_item logs a WARN when it rejects a write for a tombstoned ID
  (was silent). The warn is a tripwire — if the allocator ever lets one
  slip through again we'll see it in the log.

- create_item_in_backlog adds two defence-in-depth checks:
    (a) before any write, reject if the allocator returned a
        tombstoned ID;
    (b) after the writes, call read_item to confirm the CRDT entry
        materialised. If not, roll back the content-store + shadow-DB
        rows via db::delete_item and return Err.

Regression tests cover the allocator skip, the is_tombstoned accessor,
and the create_item_in_backlog rollback path.

Out of scope for this commit:
- Recovery of the already-half-written items currently in the running
  pipeline (989, 1000, 1001) — Stage 2/3 of the plan, handled
  separately.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

server/src/crdt_state/mod.rs

@@ -42,7 +42,8 @@ pub use presence::{
 };
 pub use read::{
     CrdtItemDump, CrdtStateDump, check_archived_deps_crdt, check_unmet_deps_crdt,
-    dep_is_archived_crdt, dep_is_done_crdt, dump_crdt_state, evict_item, read_all_items, read_item,
+    dep_is_archived_crdt, dep_is_done_crdt, dump_crdt_state, evict_item, is_tombstoned,
+    read_all_items, read_item, tombstoned_ids,
 };
 pub use state::{init, subscribe};
 pub use types::{